Before my Corn Mother Dolly returns to the Garden,

I though I would share her with you .

( you can click on the photos for a better look)

She is a corn dolly, aka a representation of the Corn Mother, the Harvest Mother, The Corn Maiden, The Old Woman, The Old Grandmother, The Carline, among other names which the spirit of the corn ( grain or cereal) may be called.




Since coming to our home from the last harvest,
she has supervised many plantings for this spring's garden and on the final day of planting she was returned to the garden to watch the sun set and to be tilled into the first garden furrow of the new planting season.










She was made of corn husks and silk, wheat, dried fairy roses and bits of hydrangea blossoms. Her lovely face was that of an apple plucked strait from the tree, carved and then dried on to a dowel.








and tied with green garden jute at the waist













Later a dried Pink Pearl Apple slice was added because it looked so pretty on her.


Though she returns to her garden home this spring, she will return to our home in August/September when the last grains are harvested. Her face will be a bit different. Her dress and ornamentation will be new . But her spirit will be the same.


till then
here's wishing you a bountiful gardening season .
Ma Fey
and
The Spirit of The Corn Mother Dolly


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St. Patrick's Day Traditions, Luck, Lore and FOOD!

I LOVE ST. Patrick’s Day

Warnning: This is a photo heavy post and I get a bit… umm… weird, pretentious and full of my self inthe first part of this post .. not apologizing .. just warning. So I won’t be offended if you skip to the other stuff. Honest! Also there are some photos of meat cooking , sorry if that bothers you, but there is plenty to read here and that part is easily skipped. I want to apologize for some of the photos, i am currently not able to use my regular monitor and the one i am using currently isn't super clear..

( now , just like dinner, this post is complete as i have added all the photos)

Ok here goes ..

I LOVE ST. Patrick’s Day

No , Not for the Green Beer, nor the parades where they happen, nor for the silly hats and shirts , no not even for all the green water you can find (died or other wise…).. even though all those things help to add to the wonderful energy of the day most certainly.. They are just extra goodied that come with the day if you like those things..

I love the St. Patrick’s Day because in my house it was and is a family day.

The smells of all the foods being readied, and the fresh flowers that come into the house, and the sticking of ones fingers in the cream of pies or frosting of coffee cakes and the snichen’ of a piece of warm soda bread along with all the hustle and bustle reminds me of the times spent in the kitchen with My Grandma Grace and my Mother , and their three days of cooking they would do getting ready for the holiday. There were always loaves of soda bread and jars of winter or early spring canned fruit jellies and jams to be dispersed amongst family members, neighbors and friends. And oh those rare and magical weekends when the morning after St Patrick’s Day fell on a Saturday or Sunday and spending time watching my dad make corned beef hash with pancakes and eggs and quizzing him about everything from what it was like when he was growing up to wont mom be mad you for putting her good cast iron pot on top all of that mess??? Those became even more fun mornings when Grandma Grace and Grandpa Red moved in with us after his first stoke.. he would tell us all kinds of stories about growing up in Ireland and about his parents and brothers and sisters and Irish folk tales ( al though I some times wonder how many were Irish and how many were Grandpa Red’s “folk tales”…)

While I cant go back in time to be with them all again, I can bring their memories a bit more for front in my heart and honor them by Sharing as much as I am able with my family, and friends.. They were strong people who lived through some of the toughest times in history .. This year I hope to teach some of the youngest of our family , the measure of strength in us all through stories of those who went before us and hope that they can take away from those stories the strength , wisdoms, patients, creative ingenuity, generosity, and selflessness they will need to stand strong in honest endurance as they muddle their way through these our the current trying times. ..

Ok sorry got a little on the soap box there.. the whole point is that its another day to spend with family and friends .

So

On to the good stuffs

Did you Know?:

Erin go braugh' is an incorrect spelling and is essentially meaningless. ‘Erin go brea’ the correct phrase and means ‘Ireland the beautiful’. 'Erin go deo' means ‘Ireland forever’. Other common spellings include "Erin go brah" and "Erin go bragh". The correct spelling of the phrase is 'Éirinn go Brách' or in some dialects of Gaeilge 'Éirinn go Brágh'… ( it is possible that braugh has been misspelled due to phonics… in other words spelling it how it sounds)… 'Éirinn go Brágh' is now commonly used as a patriotic cry meaning 'Ireland forever,' - 'go Brágh' meaning forever.

From an old Gaelic Prayer:

May the blessing of light be upon you,

Light without and within…

And in all your comings and goings,

may you ever have a kindly greetin’

from them you meet along the road.

Grandma Grace's Traditional Corned beef and cabbage

Corned beef replaced the traditional bacon when Irish who immigrated to
America found the bacon to expensive.

Ingredients
• 4½ pound corned beef brisket
• 3 allspice berries
• 1 bay leaves
• 1/2 teaspoon mustard seeds
• 1 onion, quartered
• 1 whole bulb garlic, cut crosswise so each clove is cut in half but the bulb stays in tact
• 1 teaspoon black peppercorns
• 1 medium head cabbage, cut into eights
• 1½ pounds small red potatoes
• 1 shot (ounce) true Irish Mist or Irish whiskey (optional)
Cooking Instructions
1. Rinse corned beef under running water. Place in large pot.

2. Tie allspice, bay leaves, mustard seeds, peppercorns, into a piece
of cheese cloth using green floss (or white string) and add to the pot
with the brisket.

if you do not have cheese cloth you can use a coffee filter.

Place the coffee filter into a cup to help form the shape.

place the herbs and spices in to the filter







and then tie them up as you would for cheese cloth

3. Add the whiskey,Pouring it right onto the top of the meat

then add onion and garlic.

and the herb and spice pouch

Add enough water to cover.( I prefer to use Irish mist)

4. Bring to a boil, skim any scum if needed. Reduce to a simmer and
cover. Cook about 3 to 5 hours, or until fork-tender.

Remove and keep
warm. (wrap in aluminum foil )

5. Remove spices and vegetables from cooking water.

Add cabbage and
potatoes. Bring to a boil and reduce to a simmer. Cook about 30
minutes until potatoes are fork tender.

Slice the brisket thin.










Want a real goody, pour a bit of the liquid left from the meat, potatoes, and cabbage on top of your potatoes instead of butter or with the butter!

Irish Blessing
Like the shamrocks of old Ireland
May your joys grow all year through-
and Irish luck and laughter
be a part of all you do!

Did you know …

Eating cabbage or other greens is considered good luck because the green leaves are representative of money. Did you know the Man in the Moon who was allegedly banished to the moon after being caught stealing a cabbage from his neighbor on Christmas Eve; and that cabbage throughout the ages has been a reported cure for hangovers?!?

And for the day after you have GOT to try this with the left over Corned Beef, cabbage and boiled potatoes dinner .. it is to die For!

Grama’s Corned beef Hash

3 Tbsp. olive oil ( more or less)

Left over Corned Beef Brisket , Chopped fine about 3 cups

Left over cooked cabbage, chopped fine about 1 cup

Left over boiled potatoes, cubed small about 2 cups

1/2 medium-small sweet onion, chopped fine

1/2 sweet red pepper, chopped fine

1 clove garlic, minced

2 Tbsp. flour

1 cup beef bullion

1 Tbsp. Worcestershire sauce

1/4 tsp cumin powder (Watkins is recommended)

1/2 tsp. dried parsley (Watkins is recommended)

1 tsp. dried oregano (Watkins is recommended)

1/2 tsp. dried lemon thyme

1/2 tsp. Black Pepper ((Watkins is recommended)

1/2 tsp. Sea salt (Watkins is recommended)

1/2 tsp. dried Rosemary (Watkins is recommended)

10 inch cast iron skillet and an 8 inch cast iron skillet, and a study metal spatula

In small dish combine all the spices and salt. Set aside.

Prepare the left over Corned Beef Brisket; working with the brisket cold, remove the

fat form the fatty side. Then slice into the smallest sized cubes you can manage. Next,

with good meat cleaver, chop till fine ( or to desired texture_ my family likes medium-

fine).

Prepare the cabbage, by balling it in your hands as squeezing as much liquid as you

are physically able from the ball . (Work it in your hands over and over to remove as

much of this liquid as humanly possible !) With the cleaver, chop the cooked cabbage till

is resembles a course “paste” place this in a small dish and set aside.

Place chopped meat into a small bowl and set aside

Now, finely cube the potatoes and set them into another small bowl .

Chop the onions, sweet red pepper and finely mince the garlic and place them in

another small bowl together.

Prepare the beef bullion and set it aside. Then measure out the Worcestershire sauce,

and flour into separate small dishes and set them aside.

Place the 10 inch cast iron skillet on the flame ( I use a gas oven ) over medium high

heat. And coat the bottom well with the 3 tablespoons of olive oil ( or more) . let this get

Just to the smoking point and pour in the onion, pepper, garlic mix and stir . Let the

onions just start to turn light golden brown then add the potatoes. Continue to cook till

they start to get a little brown around the edges ( remember to lightly scrap the little bits

from the bottom of the pan .) Next add the macerated cabbage to the potato mixture and

fry them together 3 to 5 min. stirring constantly with the metal spatula. Now add the

chopped corned beef , Worcestershire sauce and the dry spice-salt mixture and stir them into the potato-cabbage mixture well. Press this to the sides of the pan ( in a circle) and

add the beef bullion to the center of the pan and give it a good stir to help remove any

stuck bits , then remove 2 to 3 Tbsp. of the warm liquid and add it to the flour to form a

past the stir the flour past into the liquid in the middle of the pan . Mix this all together

very well with the spatula . Smooth the hash out evenly all over the pan and place the

8 inch cast iron skillet, bottom side down into the pan on top of the hash and give it a

little press. Let this cook for 5 min. CAREFULLY lift the 8 inch pan out and scrap any

thing sticking to it back into the 10 inch pan and give every thing a good stir being sure

to scrap the good stuff from the bottom of the pan and turning the has over on itself.

Replace the 8 inch pan and let set another 5 minutes and give it another good deep

bottom scraping stir. Repeat this process 2 more times. Then leave the 8 inch pan off

and continue to cook the hash till brown and crispy, stirring frequently.

This is best when served when topped with eggs fried over easy and slices of fresh

cantaloupe on the side.

Note: some time you need to add a bit more oil to the pan while frying the potatoes and

cabbage to keep things from sticking to the pan.

The Blessing of Light:

May the blessing of Light be on you,

Light without and light within.

May the blessed sunlight shine on you

and warm your heart till it grows like a great peat fire,

so that the stranger may come

and warm himself at it,

and also a friend

Irish Soda Bread

This recipe has been floating around Grama’s ol wooden recipe box for longer than I can remember. I am not claiming it to be an ol family recipe or a true traditional Irish Soda from “the old country” , just that it is the recipe is traditional in our house ,and admittedly I tend to play around with . But either way it is an important part of our St. Patrick’s Day Celebration

Pre-heat oven to 375degrees F.

4 cups unbleached flour

3 teaspoons baking powder

½ teaspoon baking soda

½ teaspoon salt

3 tablespoons course (or regular) sugar ( I use vanilla sugar)

1 and ½ cup raisins ( prefer golden when I can get them)

2 tablespoons caraway seed

1 and ½ cups buttermilk

Sift flour, baking powder, soda, salt and sugar together into a large mixing bowl

Now add other ingredients and blend well.

Shape into 1 round loaf and sprinkle the top with sugar.

Cut a cross into the top of the loaf and bake on lightly sprayed (or greased) baking sheet for 15 minutes at 375 degrees F. Then reduce heat to 350 degrees F. and bake for 45 minutes,

Remove from pan and cool on wire rack.

Slice and serve with coffees, teas, and jellies or jams.

An Irish Blessing:

May your thoughts be as glad as the Shamrocks,

May your heart be as light as a song,

May each day bring you bright, happy hours

That stays with ye all the year long!

OH.. And Don’t for get to wear the green! ( or green white and orange )

The phrase "the Wearing of the Green" began when the shamrock became an emblem of rebellion in the 19th century and Queen Victoria made the practice of wearing a shamrock by member's of her regiments punishable by death by hanging.

Irish legend states that green clothes attract faeries and aids crops.

Here is a bit more about St. Patrick’s Day

In Ireland, St. Patrick's Day is more of a religious holiday similar to Christmas and Easter, and the saint of the day St. Patrick is a Christian saint who was buried in Northern Ireland on March 17^th . Saint Patrick's Day as a celebration of Irish culture was rarely acknowledged by Northern Irish loyalists, who consider it a festival of the Irish Republicans, but there are new steps being taken to change this view. For instance, currently, during the Belfast parade only the flag of St. Patrick is supposed to be used as a symbol of the day so that it is not seen as a time which is exclusively for Republicans and Nationalists. This policy is to allow both Unionists and Nationalists to celebrate the day together. The Unionists wear orange instead of green on St. Patrick's Day and are often referred to as “orangemen” (orange often but not always represents the Protestants of Northern Ireland.)

St. Patrick's Day in Dublin, Ireland is a five-day festival, but for at least one day of the year, March 17^th, both Christians and non-Christians the world over, can celebrate a version of the holiday. And they do so by wearing green and/or orange, eating Irish food and/or green foods and drinks, drinking Irish drinks (usually Guinness or Irish whisky), and attending parades and festivals and more. On St. Patrick’s Day it is said that Every one is (or wants to be) Irish.

As pagans we might look to myth, legend, lore, history and traditions of old to find ways to celebrate, rejuvenate and create the energies of hope and prosperities to come. Others of us my simply look to current traditions to celebrate. But no mater how or why we celebrate, we can all experience the joyous energy of “the luck-o-the-Irish”.

The Legend of the Shamrock (a 3 leafed clover)

Seamrog - a compound of "seamair", or clover, and "og", meaning young or small. ( aka what we now call the shamrock). The traditional Gaelic spelling ,"seamr q" means summer plant. This plant, (but it must be a true shamrock) is said to have mystic, even prophetic powers. It is said the leaves will stand upright to warn of an approaching storm and will lean to the direction of coming danger or wilt away from a person overtaken by an evil spirit.

It is said that the Shamrock, Trifolium dubium, the three-leafed plant was used by St Patrick to convert Ireland from Paganism to Christianity. The reports are that he used it ( in the 5^th century , to teach the principle of the Christian Holy Trinity . He taught that it was a living representative of the “ Three-in-One” ( a.k.a. the Christian Holy Trinity) in that each leaf represents God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit, and that each part made up the whole of the plant stem. The first mention of a link between the saint and the holy clover comes in the early 18th century from the diary of a wandering Protestant cleric Named Caleb Threlkeld who wrote: "This plant [white clover] is worn by the people in their hats upon the 17th day of March yearly, which is called St Patrick's Day, it being a current tradition that by this three-leafed grass he emblematically set forth to them the mystery of the Holy Trinity." This is the fist found mention of this legend which came about many years after the Bishop Patrick passed away. No one is saying that is wasn’t possible, just that is was not a proven fact reported during his life time. Regardless the truth of the legend, the shamrock has become the icon of the Nation of Ireland, and you will find sprigs of it proudly pined to the lapels of young and old alike on St. Patrick’s day. ( I would like to note that the official symbol of Ireland is the 12-stringed harp and not the iconic shamrock) . The symbolic meaning of the clover’s trefoil growth would not have been original to the Protestant cleric Caleb Threlkeld nor Saint Patrick. The ancient Celts may also have revered the clover because of the trinity of its leaves too. These people had a myriad of powerful beliefs based on triads, which we see in the triskelion, triquetra, triple spiral, Druid marks, and various knot-work found in so much of the art from their time. The representations of three , depending on how depicted, indicated aspects of goddesses, gods, time, balance and a wealth of other things connected in colorations of 3. But regardless of who saw it first, the myth, lore and legend of the shamrock dose and will always spark the magick of hope, prosperity and rejoicing and the promise of growth, success, good health and spring eternal in our hearts and minds .

Shamrocks upon the lapel all evil will dispel!

( you can use Green, Orange, White thread .. or a twist of all three colors if you choose)

Go out into the grass in your bare feet ( weather permiting) and gather up the longest stemmed shamrocks you can find. This is best done at sun rise before breakfast on St. Patrick's day but any time on that day is fine .

cut a length of the thread 5 to 7 inches long

gather the shamrocks into a a bouquet.

Wrap on end of the thread lightly around your little finger to anchor it

While holding the tiny stems of th ebouquet in your fingers wrap the end of the thread that isn't wraped around your pinky up to 3 times around for the tripple Goddess/God , then once more for prosperity , once more for protection, and once more Ireland . Then one last time for all. ( a total of 7 wraps).

Tie the thread with 3 knots to secure.

Leave the thread long so that this bouquet can be hung in the home for luck all the year long at midnight on St. Patrick's day.

Ware the bouquet over your heart till midnight !

Did you know

The sweet smell of clover is said to induce a feeling of peace and calm with in ones self.

Dr Charles Nelson, a leading Irish botanist and a specialist on shamrock, says that the “Shamrock” only exists on St Patrick's Day. Every other day of the year, it's just young clover

A survey conducted by the National Botanic Gardens in Dublin found that the "shamrock" worn on St Patrick's Day is, in fact, not one plant but four different varieties of trefoil or clover. Varieties used are red clover (Trifolium pratense) and black medick (Medicago lupulina), White clover with no white marks on it’s leaves (Trifolium dubium) which is the traditional, and white clover with white marks on its leaves(Trifolium repens).

The 4 leaf clover:

Celtic druids considered the four-leafed clover to be a lucky charm.

Even today it is said that to find a 4 leaf clover is lucky indeed… to find one on St. Patrick’s Day is apparently luckier still!

The 4 leaf clover is said to grant good fortune in 4 different aspects of life. Happiness,

Hope, Peace and Love. These aspects are represented by the leaves of the clover .Never show another your lucky clover, for the power of the blessings it brings will leave you and go to them. The 4 leaf clovers luck last for just a year and a day, but do not throw it away! Place it your book of shadows or plant journals with information about it’s luck and what luck it brought you, or just a little note or 2 bout it’s legend and lore.

And finaly…:

Luck isn't just something you find -- it's something you create. This Household talisman just might help.

Place a healthy plant in a blue pot. Stand in the center ( or as close as you can get) of your home and face North then locate the farthest (left) corner of your home and place the plant there.







Beneath the plant place three silver (or shiny) coins to boost your financial luck, growth and prosperity level .

(a lush green plant that grows in a vertical direction will also help to lift your spirits, increase your luck, and draw positive energy upwards into your environment . If this is tied to a piece of wood to help its vertical growth, this too will help attract good fortune and increase personal growth in many aspects. If the leaves have a striped pattern to them, this too can help increase the power of this household talisman, as the stripes of the leaves can help the energy flow more freely and smoothly)

The readings of the tarot on St. Patrick’s Day are said to be the truest if the laid in the Celtic Cross fashion.

To dream of clover is said to symbolize attainment, growth, financial gain, success, good health refinement, wellness, satisfaction and contentment

One last bit o' Irish lore
click on the photo to read the legend of the Irish Claddagh










Always remember those who've gone before thee, and give thanks that thier sacrifices and survival brought thee to me !

Happy and prosperous Blessings of of the Weefolk be with thee always !
Ma Fey

Rocks in my...

Thought I would share with you some of my many Crystals, stones, gems , minerals and such .
Some I use in healing and some I have just because I like them so much.

I have been a rock hound since I was old enough to snatch spoons from Mom's kitchen drawer and go out to dig in the dirt for the pretty ones. ( No wonder she could never find her serving spoons at dinner time... Sorry Mom... between my rock hounding and my first attempts at gardening, it's a wonder we didn't grow up eating with our fingers )


I thought I would start with some of my eggs with Ostara/Easter coming up, and some of the other rocks and such I had out today.

Please note that statement made here are of my personal experiences. If some one try's them it does not mean that they will necessarily work for that some one . These uses should ALWAYS be considered and used in co-operation and under the care and advice of the proper professionals. I nor any one associated with this article can or is responsible for your actions or the out come of your actions should you try these techniques,tips,thoughts,etc.. if you choose to do so, you do so at your own risk. In other words,If you try it, no mater what happens as a result , You can't ( and shouldn't) blame any one.
We are each unique and our life force energies will connect or won't with others.

That said , lets move on .

This is Orange Citrine (a form of quartz).
My personal experience with citrine is with healing. When I have been doing a lot of readings for people, I get "psychic-headaches-with-heat" after a while. I am not running a fever, I am just over heated and have a annoying "headache". That's when I reach for the citrine. Citrine is a naturally cool stone. By gently ( no pressure) placing the stone to the center area of the forehead (aka the third eye area) , the temples and the back of the neck , I can cool and relieve this type of headache for my self with out the use of herbs or other unneeded medications. Maybe this has something to do with it's reported protective powers and it's said ability to "facilitate psychic awareness" -- to quote Scott Cunningham. I have suggested this use to others and they have said it worked.. whether or not it did work for them or they were just being polite and saying it did when it didn't, well... only they and the maker knows for sure!

The strange shadow of a oval shape is how my camera ( no mater what I tried) interpreted the beautiful green rings of this piece of rainbow obsidian. I have three of these eggs, this with the green rings, one with purple and one that looks to be a bit of both colors depending on which "eye" your are looking at. These are some of my favorites. Yes, I know there are those who won't touch the stuff, but I find it fascinating to look at and suffer no ill effects from them what so ever . If I am working with stones in a healing I ALWAYS ask if the person is o.k. with obsidian . It's not nice to violate another's personal beliefs and that would be very counter active to the healing efforts. Besides, I am to old and to tired to be wasting energy like that.


I love this little quartz egg. It's not completely clear . it has some faint inclusions , which make it a nice "thinking" piece. It turns in the hand easy and it small enough to carry in the pocket. I never use it for a worry stone, just one to look upon and focus on what good things have happened lately. when I am done "thinking on it" , I always have a smile. It's size makes it easy to cleans when needed too.

I am not sure what stone the green egg behind it is,( probably altered in appearance in some way), but the beautifully sparkly green is one of my favorite greens on the spring alter and always brightens up any spot it is placed in .. it's one I like a lot .


This is another green stone? egg . I love how it is marbled. again i am sure this was altered in the polishing , it feels coated with something .. but I always see something different when I look at it .

It reminds me to be flexible . To go with the flow so that I too can grow and re bloom in spring.






This little tiny Robin's egg blue stone was a gift from a friend. I use this stone when working with the throat chakra. It is small and can be carried and cleansed easily .






See how tiny that little Robbin's egg blue egg is ? And as you can see there are 2 other stones even smaller. The center one is a lapis and the one to the left in the photo is rose quartz.


I love this shell cluster. It was a gift from the sea during a family trip to Florida and has been a long time guest on the spring alter or a water element alter, or where ever it's needed.



This is a good quick reading piece or mini mind vacation piece...in other words it is easy to "get lost" in all it' s patterns . Some times we all need a mini mind vacation and all the twists, turns, curves and bumps on this piece can let your mind wander far away .

I know it's a fossil but that's about it . I don't even know where I picked it up at, only that I have had it for many, many, many years.


This is the other side of the Fossil

Fossils are said to help one recall ones past and are some times used when working with past life regression.






These are some other little thinking stones. the flat one in the back I have used as a worry stone. It fits nicely in the hand as do each of these in thier own way . Again these are all easily cleansed when needed.






Yes, I have a crystal ball silly ! I'm a respectable gypsy-kitchenwitch after all ! ( Or whatever "label" it is I fall under these days)

The ball is about 4 -5/8 inches in diameter and is hand carved from quartz crystal. This piece has some clear areas and some inclusions. It sits on a quartz base , then both pieces sit on a hand turned solid wooden base with a black cover which is currently in my embroidery hoop. I will show it all together when the cover is finished.




Well , until the next "Rocks in my ..." post ,

May your road never be rocky nor weigh you down ,
even if you Do have some stones you carry around.
Ma Fey

A KitchenWitche's Apron- as I know it .

It looked as if it was going to be one of "THOose" days in the kitchen today.

Yup!
I should probably have taken my clue card and left when I set my pot holder on fire.

But did I ?

Ohhh No.

I stayed.

I stayed through spilling the
kosher salt , and dumping my extract.

I stayed through spilling my coffee - the whole fresh hot cup- onto my feet.
( I am OK , it only stung -no burn- lucky I was for sure!)

I stayed through grabbing the cookie sheet from the 400 degree F. oven with my bare fingers.

I stayed through dropping the chef knife
(If it were not for my crocks ( shoes) it would have been a toe for sure)

I stayed through running a fork prong between my wedding ring and my finger.
(again no injury per-say, but yet another close call. )

I stayed through dropping one of my last 3 eggs on the floor- thank goodness I only needed 2.

I stayed through burning one batch of scones and the batch of cookies..
( something I have not done since I first started to bake in my own kitchen ... years ago!!!)

Then I stayed to figure out what was off ... why was I apparently so out of kilter .... what was I doing or not doing differently .. and if it wasn't me .. then what was up in this room?????

Sure most would chalk this up to a "bad day" and walk away.
Not me .
As I see it,
I am as responsible for my good or bad days as any influence/excuse one can think of.

Then it dawned on me....
I didn't have my trusty-rusty black apron on... was that it.. could something so mundane be why I felt so out of sorts in my kitchen??

Well, I had run the gambit of all thing it could have possibly been and wasn't any of those.
So, I put it on and
I stayed in the kitchen ...

You see, I am what some would consider a KitchenWitch.. and many of us you talk to will have something to say about the tools and equipment we use in the kitchen. Among those items many will list the apron (not all, but many of us will).

There are all sorts of neet-o-nifty-diddies out there about the meanings and sentiments of the apron and what it represent concerning our foremothers, and the homes and environments they made for loved ones all the while wearing thier tried-n-true favorite apron .

The apron is most certainly all those things and more.

In the energies the apron raises through our psychological correlations of these types of memories, we connect with our foremothers. And through them, we can connect to any or all aspect of the Goddess.
Maiden, Mother, and Crone.

Beyond it's obvious uses , the apron could be considered a wonderful teaching tool when teaching someone how to protect themselves. For some, trying to carry the image of "protective armor" is literally more than they can bare at the beginning point in there self empowerment and sense of a form of self protection.
Using a light weight apron, teach the younger to envision the prettiest lights in all colors and any pattern that connects these colors, that they can imagine. Tell them it can even be random splatters of color, but that the colors must connect. Instruct them that this protection of light can be put on as one would put on a light weight, well fitting apron, but that unlike the apron which only covers a part of them, the light they are putting on covers them like a suit they can not feel, and when they tie up or button up the back , they are wrapping themselves in feather weight light to protect them in the kitchen (or whenever they feel they need it . )

You might even make an apron in a solid color of their choice, then let them decorate it however they wish to help them visualize and sense the connection of the self empowerment and self protection .

The apron carries in it's pockets inspiration disguised as recipes and seasonings and those little utensils you have no place else to put at the moment and some times hidden treasures like sweets and all sorts of stuffs.

Well, true or not about my favorite aprons protective powers ( my beliefs are mine), all the shenanigans in my kitchen stopped after I put it on.

Lets just say there was enough proof in the pudding for me about my connection to wearing my apron when I am in the kitchen!

Light and Blessings and in hopes of a better day tomorrow for all !
Ma Fey